live music...... a show where we can really get into the music but that has a song just sexy enough i can wrap my arms around her and pull her close to let her know that i want her and that will keep that stuck in her mind.......then afterwards drinks or food (I'll know she's comfortable if she eats around me) while we talk about our dreams and while we're walking back to my car i pull her in for a first kiss that makes both our clits throb and takes our breath away.