Romance, fantasy, the full package. To be able to find that significant other to lust for, to care for and to empower whilst engaging in something naughty, spontaneous, maybe a little daring.
会浇灭我性欲的是:
Ugly remarks that body shame an individual.
Lack of comfortability.
Falling out of the moment to top up on aphrodisiacs such as more alcohol, more drugs. Just enjoy the moment and if more is needed more is needed but it should never cut sex off straight away and leave the person questioning what they did wrong in the bedroom for someone that has to stay at their peak just to have sex with someone else.